Elizabeth Gilbert, Eckhart Tolle, Marianne Williamson, Al-Anon/12-Step tenets, even probably Pema Chodron though I don’t know her work as well – they’re all saying the same thing in different words (and with different publishers): that loving the self and coming from that loving place is the key to everything. We materialize into our lives whatever we hold in our thought – I think it was Richard Bach who said that.